What do you think o me and my friend?

Me and him have been best friends for 6 years. We know everything about each other. I used to be chubby and under confident, so in a group he was the leader. I lost weight got y, and want to take control. In a group we are constantly fighting for followers. The one with the fewest will normally give in and follow the other. I have always been the hard headed and determined one. H has een more laid back and accepting. I am striving to be better, hes ine with what he is. ( or he makes it seem that way ) We are both "talented" in controlling peoples mind, makeing them do our biding, and leadership. People like to follow us. When we work together we are unstopable. I am always looking for a fight, he is looking for peace. I dont get along with everyone well. He dose better, but there are som that hate him too. We both have the military in mind for our futers. I want Army Infantry, he wants a safe job, but to be a Mariene. . He has problems controling anger. I can control all my emotions easly. I feel we are different yet the same. We look similar, with very close heritage. We arnt related at all though. When we meet people, I look for the bad in them, he looks for the good. We would both fight to defend the other. I try and help him out and motivat him in life to sucseed. He always insults me when I fail and acts like a jerk, but when I sucseed he tells me how good I did and congradulates me and seems very exited. We always want to do stuff together, and have made life descisions based on i the other dose or not. We have both made sacrifice to defend the other. He is my best friend and one of the few people that undersands how I work kinda. He belives almost anything he heres on tv, I need hard evidence or to heer it from multiple sorces to belive somthing. When I got to over confident, I started acting like a jerk and so did he. We are always argueing about who is better. I put my girlfriend in front of him. To him it was the untimate betrayal. She broke up, he was joyess yet ticked at me. ( those two are dating now ) I relised all the wrong I habe done to him and dont want to lose such a good friend. I apologized for everything I had done wrong to him, and begged for forgiveness. He now acts all y and unstopable. I want to be a better friend but not under his control. Sugestions?